Comments on: Reflux http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/ Mon, 14 Sep 2009 22:38:49 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Margaret http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-1288 Margaret Fri, 21 Dec 2007 06:19:03 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-1288 I just want to send you a blog hug. My family is completely accepting of me but I know others whose families aren't. Sometimes I want to shake their family members and say "Get over it. Accept her!!" It can eat at you. I know from what its like for my friends. I am so glad that you can express yourself on this blog. I just want to send you a blog hug. My family is completely accepting of me but I know others whose families aren’t. Sometimes I want to shake their family members and say “Get over it. Accept her!!” It can eat at you. I know from what its like for my friends. I am so glad that you can express yourself on this blog.

]]> By: belledame222 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-996 belledame222 Tue, 06 Nov 2007 20:10:15 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-996 ((hugs)) uncertainty sucks, and so does institutionalized homophobia. wishing you well... ((hugs)) uncertainty sucks, and so does institutionalized homophobia. wishing you well…

]]> By: DaisyDeadhead http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-995 DaisyDeadhead Tue, 06 Nov 2007 19:15:50 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-995 With all that is currently happening in Pakistan, I wish you the best of luck, and my prayers are with all of the Pakistani people. With all that is currently happening in Pakistan, I wish you the best of luck, and my prayers are with all of the Pakistani people.

]]> By: jalaluddin http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-887 jalaluddin Sat, 27 Oct 2007 12:19:04 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-887 I feel sorry for not having come your blog earlier on. Too many questions, too many fears, and we are all bound together by sharing them every moment of our lives. I feel sorry for not having come your blog earlier on.

Too many questions, too many fears, and we are all bound together by sharing them every moment of our lives.

]]> By: bint alshamsa http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-855 bint alshamsa Wed, 24 Oct 2007 22:53:53 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-855 I know it's late but Eid Mubarak!! ;( I know it’s late but

Eid Mubarak!! ;(

]]> By: Sin http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-831 Sin Sun, 21 Oct 2007 14:44:54 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-831 I keep forgetting that for you (from a purely practical perspective), leaving the country and moving somewhere abroad is actually a viable option :-) I still think though that it's not the coming-out itself as the management of the process that will determine how comfortable it remains for you to stick around. Dinner in two weeks? Am back up. I keep forgetting that for you (from a purely practical perspective), leaving the country and moving somewhere abroad is actually a viable option :-) I still think though that it’s not the coming-out itself as the management of the process that will determine how comfortable it remains for you to stick around.

Dinner in two weeks? Am back up.

]]> By: mortarandpestle http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-752 mortarandpestle Sat, 13 Oct 2007 16:33:09 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-752 I'm not out yet to my whole family (just my siblings), but am planning to tell them in the near future. I wondered when I read your earlier post and the comments whether it's completely naive to think that coming out is even possible. But, like you, I think it would be worse for my family if I lied to them. This is just to say that here are other people in the same boat as you. It might be the blind leading the blind here, and I can't pretend to know all your circumstances, but for what it's worth, I think that this is the right decision to make, in spite of the real consequences and fear around it. I’m not out yet to my whole family (just my siblings), but am planning to tell them in the near future. I wondered when I read your earlier post and the comments whether it’s completely naive to think that coming out is even possible. But, like you, I think it would be worse for my family if I lied to them. This is just to say that here are other people in the same boat as you. It might be the blind leading the blind here, and I can’t pretend to know all your circumstances, but for what it’s worth, I think that this is the right decision to make, in spite of the real consequences and fear around it.

]]> By: yakrib http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-731 yakrib Fri, 12 Oct 2007 17:58:11 +0000 http://meraterrhapakistan.wordpress.com/2007/10/12/reflux/#comment-731 wish you happy Eid, although unlikely. i think you're old for this, but whenever i am in deep shit i keep thinking: i am alive! this is great! wish you happy Eid, although unlikely.
i think you’re old for this, but whenever i am in deep shit i keep thinking: i am alive! this is great!

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